70 Life Lessons That Will Fix 93% Of Your Problems

70 Life Lessons that will fix 93 of of your problems 1
  1. Honesty and Friendship: Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but it’ll always get you the right ones.
  2. Self-Reflection: Don’t worry about what other people are thinking about you because everyone is only thinking about themselves.
  3. Avoid Comparison: Every second you spend comparing your life to someone else’s is a second spent wasting yours.
  4. Emotional Detachment: Don’t get emotionally attached to anyone. People change, even your best friends can turn into strangers one day.
  5. Self-Contentment: Learn to be content and happy by yourself. If you need a company to be happy, then it will make you weak.
  6. Share Progress, Not Goals: Share your progress, not your goals, and you’ll always be motivated.
  7. Value Solitude: Don’t be afraid to be alone. Being by yourself is far superior than being with crappy people.
  8. Recognize Takers: The people who ask the most from you are the people who do the least for you.
  9. Take Responsibility Seriously: Take your responsibilities seriously, but not yourself.
  10. Understand Fear: Fear is not there to stop you; it’s there to show you that you’re interested and you care.
  11. Avoid Temporary Decisions: Don’t make permanent decisions on temporary emotions.
  12. Avoid Idolizing: If you put her on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you.
  13. Perspective in Advice: People give you advice based on their perspective.
  14. Think Before Speaking: Not everything in your brain needs to come out of your mouth.
  15. Avoid Lies: Don’t do anything that you will have to lie about later.
  16. True Brilliance: Light travels faster than sound, that’s why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.
  17. Inner Happiness: Don’t look for happiness; it’s always inside you.
  18. Self-Care: You owe nothing to your younger self, but you owe everything to your present self.
  19. Overcome Obstacles: Self-care is realizing that you are your greatest obstacle.
  20. Respect Wisdom: Your parents were correct multiple times, even if not academically qualified. Stop insulting them when they advise you.
  21. Confidence: Act like you have been there before.
  22. Avoid Overthinking: Overthinking ruins you; it ruins the situation, twists things around, makes you worry about futile questions, and makes everything much worse than it actually is.
  23. Long-Term Perspective: If you’re going to get angry about something, think to yourself, “Will I remember this in 10 years?”
  24. Self-Care: You only get one body. Take care of it; you’ll have it all your life, and while it is incredibly resilient, it can only give you what you put into it.
  25. Truth in Emphasis: If someone emphasizes that they are telling the truth, you can be sure they are lying.
  26. Control Your Time: All you have power and influence over is what you decide to do with the time that you are given today.
  27. Be Yourself: You will never ruin a role if you play yourself.
  28. Avoid Comparison: Don’t compare the behind-the-scenes of your life to someone else’s highlight reel.
  29. Acceptance: Just because you miss someone doesn’t mean you need them back in your life. Missing is a part of getting over.
  30. Values Over Looks: You may choose a partner based on their looks and enjoy it until you realize that your kids will not be raised by their looks but by their values.
  31. Trade-Offs: You cannot have everything. You always exchange something for something.
  32. True Friends: To know who your true friends are, look for the ones who say good things behind your back and bad things to your face.
  33. Letting Go: Letting go is very hard, but it’s the best thing to do. With time, the more winds of fear you face, the more fearless you will become.
  34. Prioritize Yourself: Never make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
  35. Self-Respect: If you are a friend to everyone, you are an enemy to yourself.
  36. Listen More, Speak Less: You were born with two ears and one mouth; use them in that proportion.
  37. Accept Change: The biggest thing you need to accept is change. You don’t only live once; you live multiple lives within one.
  38. See the Good: Life becomes easier and more beautiful when we can see the good in other people.
  39. Resilience: You can cut all the flowers, but you cannot keep spring from coming.
  40. Actions Speak Louder: Let others’ actions speak for them. People will show you far more than they will tell you.
  41. Connect the Dots: Everything that you do, you are creating dots. You can connect those dots in the later part of life and understand why you did what you did.
  42. Commitment and Consistency: Commitment is what gets you started, consistency is what gets you somewhere, and persistence is what keeps you going.
  43. Love and Let Go: You can fall in love more than once. You don’t need to worry much when someone you love leaves you. Most of the time, it’s for the good.
  44. Rise Above: If someone is trying to bring you down, it only means you are above them.
  45. Keep Promises: Don’t make promises if you have no intention to fulfill them. It might not mean anything to you, but it could mean a whole world to someone else.
  46. Avoid Regress: Going back to your ex is like having a shower and putting dirty underwear back on.
  47. Open Mind: Keep an open mind and act like an artist, but think and learn like a scientist.
  48. Create Your Purpose: You don’t find your purpose somewhere else. You create your purpose exactly where you are and bear meaning to it.
  49. Gratitude: Your entire life can change in an instant. So instead of passively taking what you have for granted, be grateful for it and do whatever good you can with it.
  50. Seek Experiences: You grow rich when you seek new experiences, not material things.
  51. Action Over Thought: Action breeds more clarity than thought. So you can’t think your way into a new life; you have to act your way into one.
  52. Mindset and Reality: The life you experience is simply a reflection of your mindset.
  53. Happiness Within: Chasing happiness will lead you to misery until you realize that happiness is the way. All you have is the now and what you do with it.
  54. Seek Wise Counsel: Be smart enough to ask for advice, but be wise enough to know who to seek it from.
  55. Let Go of Ego: The more grateful you are, the more beauty you will see all around you. The more generous life will seem, and the happier you will become. You won’t forget some bad things; you just stop caring until that happens.
  56. Healing and Forgiveness: You won’t forget some bad things, but you just stop caring until that happens. Don’t stress too much about it.
  57. Resourcefulness: Success is not about your resources; it’s about how resourceful you are with what you have.
  58. Overcome Fear: Fear limits most people throughout their lives and permeates through all of their decisions. Do your best to control it, overcome it, and revel when you defeat it.
  59. Courage to Explore: You cannot swim for new horizons until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
  60. Pursue Your Dreams: It’s never too late to do the things you’ve always wanted to do. Don’t let naysayers discourage you because they may be projecting their own insecurities.
  61. Learn from Challenges: You can’t change what happened, no matter if it was your fault or someone else messed it up. Don’t be mad about it; deal with the challenge.
  62. Protect Yourself: People will always project their fears and limiting beliefs onto you. What you must do is build a shield against this noise so you can protect yourself from it.
  63. Own Your Past: Do not discuss your past with anyone because only you know its true story and significance. Others may not understand or even use it against you.
  64. Hope for Tomorrow: Your tomorrow may be way different from your today. If you keep crying about what is not working today, I promise you that your tomorrow is not working.
  65. Listen to Your Inner Voice: Sometimes the world is trying to tell you who you are, but if you don’t stop to reflect and listen, you’ll never be able to hear.
  66. Accept Uncertainty: Life won’t go as planned, and trust me, it’s a good thing.
  67. Find Support: I remember sitting alone thinking I’d hit rock bottom, but during that tough time, I met people who shared lessons with me that helped me get through it. These lessons might be just what you need right now.
  68. People’s Intentions: People aren’t for you or against you; they’re for themselves.
  69. Embrace Change: What is coming is better than what is gone. Sometimes you just have to walk away, let people go, and let relationships end. Your true friends will become a parent when you’re at your lowest.
  70. Inner Strength: The only way out is through. You are stronger than you think. You have gotten through every bad day in your life, and you are undefeated. Nobody is going to watch out for you like you do.

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